*Signed bookplate* This book comes in paperback. Are you tired of people knowing who you are but no one really knowing you? As the star of the twentieth season of The Bachelor,Ben Higgins looked like he had it all together. Instead, Ben felt dissatisfied, fearful, and deeply alone. Like so many of us, he thought of himself as the kid who never got picked for the game, the person always on the outside of the joke, the friend who knew a lot of people but was never truly known.He wondered if he mattered at all. In this expanded edition of Alone in Plain Sight,Ben shares with inspiring vulnerability how he found the deeper connection he longed for. He offers insight on how to understand ourselves more deeply so that we are free to connect with others; how shared pain can bridge even the widest gaps between two very different people; how marriage and fatherhood have shaped his understanding of vulnerability and connection;